It's that time of year again! When everyone is vowing to eat more veggies, drink less caffeine, workout regularly. It's gym owners' favorite time of year because motivated people come, sign up, spend a couple hundred then quit going.
I've been that person. I've been the "I wanna get fit" girl, joined the gym, went about a dozen times...did it again the next year...and the next year. Then I decided that I was being silly and wasting money, so I quit with gym memberships (because I wouldn't go). When I found out I was pregnant with Connor, I vowed to be healthy. The end. Nothing fancy, no specifics, just be healthy. It was so much better!!! If I make an effort to be more health conscious, I find I'm far more likely to achieve and sustain that goal. This year, I will be continuing that goal, by adding to it an attempt to cook more meals. I'm not setting a specific amount ("cook 5 meals a week") or anything like that because those sorts of restrictions tend to make it stressful and ultimately result in failure. Nope, I'm just gonna cook more.
I've seen tons of posts over the last couple days saying things like "what's your resolution?" or "what are you gonna do to be better this year?" Was last year so bad that this one needs improvement? I don't think so. Last year, my son grew from a blob to a walking, talking little human being. I'd call that a win. I'm not resolving to fix things, because I don't feel like anything is broken. I'm just looking forward to the adventures this year will bring. What's gonna happen with my little family in the next 12 months? Who knows? But I'm anxious to find out!!
Please don't interpret that as me insulting or diminishing other peoples' efforts to improve on their current state of living. I just don't like the way a lot of this "new year new you" crap looks/sounds.
I do plan on building my Scentsy business more this year. So far, 2 days into the new year, my business has paid for my car's inspection and registration and will (most likely) be doing the same for my husband's truck. I feel pretty damn good about that! It's a nice little accomplishment that lessens the load my husband feels he has to bear for us. I'm helping, while still getting to spend my days with our delightful little boy.
What (if anything) do you want see happen in the next year? For you? For your family? For the country or the world? What do you want out of 2016?
Get your daily Nerdy fix by following us on Instagram
Writer and Contributor for the Motherhood Community